Are you frustrated or depressed in life? Are you able to point out the source of your frustrations and depressions but unable to get rid of those as the source is someone else, not you? Do you need a temporary relief which may boost you to kill your problems permanently?

Then welcome to my blog GyanXploreR.

Every person has different problems in life. Sometimes man can find his own way of solution, sometimes not. If the problems are personal, he himself or with the help of others can solve those. But if these are inter-relational, then finding of solutions sometimes becomes difficult. Now the question is, “Which problems are inter-relational?” These are such problems which occur when you have to mix with someone for the necessity of living and that someone becomes the root of all problems for you. The components of these problems are ‘Arrogance’, ‘Jealousy’, ‘Greed’, ‘Show off’, ‘Comparison’ etc. These components are processed in one’s mind and reflected on others through some behavioural changes like “Bad words”, ‘Insult’, ‘Degradation’, ‘Curse’, ‘Misbehave’ etc. Thus the attitudes of one person become the problems for others.  Sometimes you also must have behaved with others in the same way which creates problems for them. So these are better named as “Behavioural problems”.  In this blog, mostly such behavioural problems are incorporated which are strong enough to make you unhappy as these are beyond your control.  Besides, some of your wrong activities are also explored here which you often perform to protect yourself from others’ dart. But such activities can only give fuel to your problems. All these problems are growing rapidly day by day and becoming mischievous not only for a single person but for the entire society also.  Almost every individual of our society has to face these in regular course, but very few can find solutions. Amongst others some live lives full of depression and become physically and mentally weaker by swallowing up those emotionally. Some adopt the negative and violent ways as solutions which are kind enough to ruin our society instead of saving it.  If you enter in violence to solve your problems, then your opponent will be indulged to spread scandals about you which are nothing but the causes of losing your mental peace. And if it is large in numbers, it would be the cause of losing mental peace for the entire society.  So this is an unavoidable issue.

Now let me share about the creation of this website.

The most powerful weapon of an introvert person is PEN or somewhere KEYBOARD (in modern technology).  Therefore, being such a person, I have expressed my thoughts with the purpose of getting back the mental peace.  I would request the readers to visit this site regularly and to go through the articles so that they can get idea about how to spend life peacefully because the contents will positively infuse vitality which is important to survive few more years.

Now come to the subject matter of this blog.

Most of us originate thoughts in mind but few can expose those.  This blog is a result of such exposition of thoughts which are explored from life events.  It reveals the nature of men in two ways — positive and negative.  Here men with positive nature are treated as “The Victims”.  But the person or persons shown here negatively are not meant as cruel.  They are negative in such a way when they treat the victims servilely. So, they should not get offended because there is no intention to do so. This blog may help the readers to reconcile their thoughts with its contents. The persons with both the nature may realize their views on one another from its contents and also may get idea about the events happening around them on daily basis.   If any content of this blog offends or hurts the reader in any context, I must apologize for that.

The sources of all inter-relational problems are bad words, rude behaviours, wrong activities and lack of knowledge (Gyan). Here knowledge means the ‘Gyan’ about manner, modesty, courtesy, politeness, civility (all are synonyms) etc. which are much important to make and maintain a favourable relationship.  I have shared all of my ‘Gyan’ gathered by experiences in three categories, viz.

General, Thoughts and Quotes.

In ‘General’ Category, these are shared elaborately and at the end of each ‘gyan’ my appeals are also placed which may work as medicines to make you as well as others happy if you take those in the right way.

Some ‘Thoughts’ are also shared to be matched with your own experiences in life.  After exercising my thoughts you can realize that it is not you who are the ultimate victim of all mishaps.

In ‘Quotes’ column I have explored some lines totally based on my life experience which may boost you to conquer your problems and to live a life free of stress.

[Most of the contents are written in Bilingual (Bengali and English).]