Here, in this blog, I am going to share my first GYAN about Parents who should be the most precious wealth of our life and who should never be neglected in any situation irrespective of our ups and downs.

Some people may think that my opinion and GYAN will not work on them as they had to suffer a lot and struggle in life due to the unconscious attitude and intentional negligence of their parents while making their life.  But in some context their thinking is wrong.  In this article I shall clarify all these things with proper logic.

First you ask yourself, who has brought you in this world? Or because of whom you came to know that during your child days you were in great trouble?  Yes, they are your parents.  You may argue that all the parents give birth to their child, so that does not matter anything!  Yes, it does matter a lot, because they are the creator of you.  I could write this article and you are reading this only because of them.  So you should be minimally grateful to them.  Secondly, once you question yourself that can a person ruin his/her child falling its life in danger?  No, they can’t.  Just think of your parents’ situation for what they had to say die their lives as well as yours. You have to keep pace with your parents’ situation.  Remember, every parents can sacrifice anything for the sake of their child.  If you compare your life with that of anybody else, then such types of thought would arise which are kind enough to blame your parents.  Parents are not worth of getting blamed.  Your suffering and struggling were due to your FATE only, not by your parents’ negligence.  Actually they can’t neglect you.  So, you have to stop complaining.

Thirdly, if you become well established in life, you start thinking that your success is entirely as a result of your hard work and struggle and there is no parental role behind your success as they had given only trouble during your child days.  You are absolutely wrong.  Every parents has a role visible or not behind their child’s success. If you think deep, you will not ask for explanation.  Again you think, if both of your career and life are staggered for something, you become ready to blame your parents.  Why??  First think about your shortfalls, then complain.

Now I will bring forth some of your attitudes towards your parents.  These attitudes are mostly found in such cases where the parents are a bit back-dated or less educated or unable to suit themselves with the modern society.  In such cases, you always try to ignore your parents while you are in public.  You even become ashamed to introduce your parents with anybody. It is nothing but a sin. Because you do hesitate to give your parents’ identity in front of your friends, colleagues or superiors while they ask about them.  Remember, whatever your parents may be, they should always be your pride.  Some don’t agree with this.  Those parents, who have been teaching us everything directly or indirectly since our childhood, are being repeatedly debarred from learning the modern things from us.  Whenever they ask any question to us, by any means we want to avoid those or give some adverse answers.  Why is this type of mentality?  Why do we not keep patience while talking to them?  Why do we always ignore them simply saying, “You will not understand this or this is beyond your understanding”?

Anyways the events of our misbehavior towards our parents will never end.  So my only appeal to such people who act like this somehow to their parents:  Please stop doing this.  Try to understand the worth of your parents.  Please do not misbehave with them.  Just remember, they are always dependent on you whether they are financially strong or not.  You should always give support to them especially at their old ages.  They are the treasure of your life and you should realise their importance before you lose them.  Else you only will have to repent.